User blog comment:RHawk/Arwen or Eowyn?/@comment-124.197.47.149-20141209052254

I think that Arwen was just as strong as Eowyn, although she wasn't a warrior. She made hard choices, giving up her immortality for Aragorn and not going to the Gray Havens with her people. She had to wait for Aragorn too, maybe in doubt. It's a hard thing for a girl to do. Eowyn wasn't in love with Aragorn. She had a crush on him, which is something totally different. And you're talking about sacrifices she made for him- what sacrifices? The only thing she did was cause herself pain by fawning over a man who was clearly in love with someone else. That doesn't strike me as caring.

So, yes, I think Arwen deserved to end up with Aragorn. She really loved him. In my opinion, what Eowyn felt for him wasn't as strong. It was worship and admiration, I don't believe it was love. And Eowyn ended up happy with Faramir, so who are we to linger on it? I admit I don't like the pairing of Eowyn with Faramir, since it's a bit like 'oh, here are the two reject characters. Let's mush them together.' But she ended up happy.

So, yeah. Arwen.